In Her Own Words
About her
Hi, if you are looking to date be friends with someone who is absolutely certain of who they are and where they are going - you are in the wrong place. However, if looking for utter real connection regardless of where you you are in life.... I'm all for that. As long as not spiraling down the same whole together I'd much prefer to be helping someone out of their hole while trying to swim the top of mine. And same if I happen to sink.
Also Mam to 3 girls (priority). Im a little quirky brained but real!♥
I am utterly honest and caring. I am very aware that lots of us are perfectly imperfect, myself included. Once i have given my heart and trust its a very solid thing for me. So a gradual but lovely getting to know one another would be great.
Some days I just feel deflated that there is no one decent honest and genuine out there. Some days I feel more optimistic that despite my continued experiences there may one day just be someone who appreciates the whole of me with flaws and lots of good too. That doesn't take my kindness for granted and repays with a bit of selflessness on their part too. You could say I am in pursuit of mutual happiness, balance and equality. It does exist and will for me some day. I have time to wait until it happens. I need to show my girls how a healthy relationship should be.
I am certainly not seeking perfect. But someone who tries and is strong enough to acknowledge their own mistakes or flaws and be open honest and purely themselves.
About her ideal match
Words to describe my ideal partner. Perfectly imperfect. Honest, trusting, caring, real. A little selfless., quite considerate. A high regard for family values. A little sporty, enjoys hobbies. Maybe likes to create and tinker. Will occasionally buy me flowers, or offer little gestures just because he wants to.
Regards relationships as team work. Will be there for good and happy times but also be very solid when things in life are not good.
Will take time to blend with my family while also allowing me to appreciate their family.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bishop Auckland, County Durham, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district DL14 (Bishop Auckland) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
39 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Variety shows |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Badminton; Bowling; Cricket; Cycling; Dance; Field Hockey; Gymnastics; Mountain biking; Pool; Running; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Greatest Hits Radio Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |